Not Sure Which Gift to Choose? (Photo Courtesy of epSos.de)

Maybe you can relate– I got invited to a birthday party of someone I had hung out with a few times, but didn’t know well. When there’s not a gift registry to fall back on, and you don’t know the person enough to pick out a great gift you know they’ll love– what do you do? Here are some tips for how to give a gift to someone you don’t know well.

Try to Chip in With Others

Do you know anyone else that you can go in on a group gift with? Perhaps you have a friend that’s closer to the person or knows them better. You may be passing the buck, but at least there’s a better chance they’ll end up with a gift they really like or can use.

Do a Registry Search

Even if the event is not for a baby shower or wedding event, there’s a chance this person has registered for something in the past few years. Most stores keep records of registries at least two years after the event. Search for a registry that might provide clues into the person’s taste. For instance WeddingChannel.com lets you search the registries of more than a dozen stores at once.

Find More Clues

Are you friends with the person on Facebook? Do you follow them on Twitter? Do a little digging into their social networks to find out what they like and don’t like. Plenty of people offer up lots of details about their lives online these days.

Go with a Standard

There’s a chance that shirt won’t fit or that vase won’t go with their decor. So why not go with a standard gift? Pick out a gift card to a local restaurant, book store or to the movie theater. Pretty much everybody likes going out to eat, reading a good book or taking in a movie now and then. And even if they don’t, they could always give it to someone else.